As I read the article by Norris Burkes, Chaplain, in the Coloradoan Saturday, August 2, 2014, Blessings a comfort to hearers but also to bestowers, I could relate to his message. Many would find it absurd to think a blessing could have an affect when only those present are the deceased and the bestower. Nothing could be farther from the truth for the giver of the blessing also receives as do the loved ones of the departed. It’s all so very simple and powerful. Here’s the link, http://noconow.co/1rZ9qM6.